Me as well as my beloved not long ago took the outing to california from denver colorado whilst upon eighth month you was regulating his phone as well as got the shameful content from the lady you afterwards went by his phone as well as saw which he was flirting with 3 alternative girls. One lady he met the bar as well as she was promulgation him cinema the alternative lady he was observant things similar to "i skip you babe" as well as the a third lady he was job additionally it harm my feeling even yet he denied intrigue observant he only talked to them never saw them. So right away you am during my bestfriends mothers residence (he stood in the motel) as well as about to conduct home upon an airplain i have to compensate for since i can’t mount being in the automobile with him he does wish me to pardon him yet do you consider he unequivocally could only be articulate interjection i am only so harm by this incident i suspicion you were unequivocally happy
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It only sucks means you only arrived in California as well as i didnt get the possibility to do anything fun as well as right away sick be -0 also
Its only so hideous since you were about to get the place together as well as my family desired him as well as i def desired his family weve been together 6 months
listen i’m a guy and i know that he’s just not talking to them… i don’t wanna say that to you but its true. you need to talk to him and see if he will stop the texting and calling other girls and that he needs to stay committed to you. if he cant do that hes not worth keeping around
you need to learn to trust your bf, sometimes problems may not be as it seems
You got cheated on. You did the right thing. Better fish in the sea.
talk and forgive. if it happens again break up you can still hang with his family
Just be thankful that you caught on after $200 instead of paying rent, marriage ect. It hurts a lot, but leave him with a clean cut. It will be the best, and will hurt him probably more than you. Enjoy your independence for a while before you return to the dating field so that you have time to recover.
I know you must really be feeling horrible but i say that you need to move on. For now, just go out and enjoy cali without him, and then when it is time for you to leave, then take your flight back home and u never have to see him again. Guys like that dont change. trust me. goodluck..i hope things get better for you.
So let me get this right, you go to California with this guy and discovered that he’s a "player" and evidently doesn’t give you enough attention. He stayed in a hotel while you stayed somewhere else? That sounds very fishy on it’s face.
Worse, is that you don’t want a 8-10 hour ride in a car with this guy – but you want him to be your boyfriend.
Sounds more like 200 dollars well spent if you ask me, get another boyfriend.
Well.. If he is cheating on you then it’s probably because there is something missing in your relationship with him. If that is the case you should talk to him about what he wants and needs so that you can make him happy. And should it really matter if he just talks to them when he sees them? It still counts as cheating. & if hes doing it then he will probably do it again with different girls. Hope i helped =D
I just answered this a few minutes ago….
Well you are/were ready to get serious with this guy, I think you should make him text the three other girls to say he is with someone now and to stop texting and if maybe a month or solater you go on his phone and find more texts ditch him. Give him one more chance if he blows it then leave him,he isn’t worth it Hope i’ve helped
He is not totally committed to a monogamous relationship right now. Talking and flirting with 3 girls means he is not satisfied with being totaly committed to you. The great thing is you only have 6 months invested in him right now get out while you still have nothing to lose.